Hi friends. I promised in my last post that I would explain why I think dark tetrads act the way they do. It's baffling how they can be so arrogant, entitled, remorseless, manipulative and spiteful. But they are. I've described in past posts how my four dark tetrad parents behave. So now let's look at why (in my opinion) they act this way.
Everything is a competition that they must win. They're not just competitive over limited resources. They don't just want their fair share. They want everyone else's too. They don't want some attention they want to be the center of it. Because they are
Greedy and selfish. They don't just want, they want it all. They want what they have and what others have. They are black holes of want that can never be filled. No one understands, cares, does enough or is enough for. Because dark tetrads are...
Takers not givers. They endlessly expect and demand and withhold from others. They want free love, joy, peace, kindness, patience with no strings attached but enmesh and entangle anything they might offer with thousands of conditions. Because they believe
They owe nothing, others owe them everything. They WILL get their way, by fair means or foul. They cheat, extort, con and guilt people out of stuff. They break promises, don't hold up their end of bargains, exploit, manipulate and steal. Because they are
Entitled but also lazy. Work is for people who don't know how to scam, they think. And why should they when their vanity tells them they shouldn't have and the universe should just reward them because they are special. What they want should just fall into their laps like ripe plums. And if it doesn't they get ...
Pathologically jealous of everyone, especially their children. Or anyone who works for things and succeeds. Dark tetrads think they should have it all. And they should get to make bad choices, act selfish and lazy but still get good results that other people have worked a lifetime for. Actually they're just generally jealous by nature. And this makes them
Bitter and resentful. Oh so bitter. And vindictive against anyone who has the temerity to have things they don't. Or even things they had or have but don't appreciate or take care of. Or be things they aren't. They want what they want when they want it without paying for it. Because they are
Possessive and acquisitive. Where healthy people use things and love people a dark tetrad is the other way round. Getting things by normal routes isn't for them. Tricky or conning is their preferred method. Just like stolen fruit apparently tastes better. People exist only as their cat's paw. They steal souls and selves. They enmesh in you and take you over. Because they have
No integrity, soul and identity. They are only a collection of personas they adopt to get what they want. They probably have a soul somewhere in there but it's been pawned to pay their greed. They keep stealing IDs such as from their children, but it never feeds their voracious self. Their unused integrity is as motheaten as a badly stored fur.
Do they know they're so broken? IDK. Do they have any control over it? Ehh, survey says, yep. Would it be difficult to change? Probably no more difficult than any other problem to overcome. But with their overarching, overweening narcissism, I'm not holding my breath they will.
And you shouldn't either.
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